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		<title>Churchtown Supply Co.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Jan 2012 20:45:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>CJoseph</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last Friday, John Haggerty and I headed off to retrieve a painting from a friend in Greensburg, PA. On the way, we stopped by Churchtown Supply Co. on Route 23, 2049 Main St., Narvon, PA, 17555, to pick up some enamelware dishes that I had asked them to set aside. Bethann and I bought each [...]]]></description>
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<p>Last Friday, John Haggerty and I headed off to retrieve a painting from a friend in Greensburg, PA. On the way, we stopped by Churchtown Supply Co. on Route 23, 2049 Main St., Narvon, PA, 17555, to pick up some <a href="http://www.crowcanyonhome.com/">enamelware dishes</a> that I had asked them to set aside. Bethann and I bought each other burgundy and cream speckle and moss green and cream speckle dishes for Christmas and had asked for that from everyone else in the family, as well. Lydia and April had not gotten their money to their Aunt Susan in time for her trip to Churchtown Supply, so they were going to get us a gift certificate to the Washington House instead. It turned out that Churchtown Supply didn&#8217;t have enough of our colors on hand to make their contribution useful at the time. But the Washington House was closed the day of Christmas Eve, so they could not get the gift certificate.</p>
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<p>I called Churchtown Supply. After several attempts, I spoke to Nancy on Wednesday, Dec. 28. She had just received a new shipment of our colors of enamelware and would set aside the plates and bowls that I requested for me to pick up on Friday morning.</p>
<p>Churchtown Supply Co. looks like your typical, main street hardware store from the 1960s or 70s. It is a bit unusual in that it is just on a ribbon of road with houses and churches strung out alongside of it and a lush valley falling out immediately behind it. You park diagonal nose in, like they do out in Kansas. You walk in and Barry and Nancy invite you to help yourself to coffee and cookies from a folding table, where you can also pick up your free wildlife calendar. The place is comfortably lit, with most of the light provided naturally by the plate glass windows across the front, facing south toward Main St.</p>
<p>I had them tally up the pieces that I had them set aside for me, to see what the damages were; then I shopped for some more pieces to complete the collection. We got to talking. I asked them how they managed to only be open Tuesday through Saturday 8am to noon, and that I was envious. Barry said they had worked for 30 or 38 years for 90 hours a week so this was comp time. He had had some health issues and now Nancy is battling breast cancer, so it&#8217;s about what they can handle. They said, &#8220;It&#8217;s something to do. It pays the utilities and the taxes.&#8221;</p>
<p>John, Barry, Nancy and I spent some time swapping stories about the pros and cons of dealing with customers. We had a very nice time. I intend to go back and get more dishes. I encourage any of you to patronize their place, as well. They are hard working folks who could use a break. Their shop is about 4 .3 miles west of Morgantown on Rte. 23.</p>
<p>Tell them Cranford sent you.
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		<title>&#8220;Crazy is as crazy does.&#8221;</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 28 May 2010 03:47:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cranford Joseph Coulter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[After serving on the street tonight with The King&#8217;s Jubilee, I had occasion to recall a homeless man, Brad, whom I met almost twenty years ago on a similar late spring evening. He was under 25, white, of slight build, literate. He had just found himself homeless. His mom had moved in with her boyfriend [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After serving on the street tonight with <a href="http://shoutforjoy.net" target="_blank">The King&#8217;s Jubilee</a>, I had occasion to recall a homeless man, Brad, whom I met almost twenty years ago on a similar late spring evening. He was under 25, white, of slight build, literate. He had just found himself homeless. His mom had moved in with her boyfriend and there was no room for him. His dad had disappeared several years before. Brad was afraid of what might happen to him on the streets. Nothing in his life had prepared him for this. He felt completely vulnerable.</p>
<p>The next week, Brad came to eat with us again. This time, he was all disheveled and he was talking to himself and arguing with himself the whole time he was in the line. I was able to speak with him privately after everyone had eaten and the crowd had dispersed. He told me that a couple of the old hands on the street told him that the number one rule of the street is that you never mess with a crazy person. So he decided to start acting crazy as a defense, so nobody would mess with him. He learned to survive and cope on the street. I tried to direct him to programs that might help him get off the street, but space was very limited, and he didn&#8217;t fit into any of the usual categories.</p>
<p>After a few months, Brad stopped coming by to eat with us. A few more months passed and he showed up again. He was acting like a full-blown, psychotic, paranoid schizophrenic or someone on a very bad trip. The problem was he wasn&#8217;t acting anymore. He had fully inhabited the role he had chosen and had forcibly driven himself crazy; like method acting gone terribly wrong. I still see him from time to time. Some nights he is better than others. Instead of the frightened young man, he is now a quite aggressive 40 something man and is quite direct in asking for or demanding what he wants. It reminds me of a program I heard on the radio about bullies. A psychologist described aggression as preemptive fear.</p>
<p>The irony with Brad is that his crazy behavior is not irrational. On one level, it has served him well. He is still alive after spending almost 20 years on the street, because no one messes with a crazy person.
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		<title>Not Your Grandmother&#8217;s Split Pea &amp; Ham Soup</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 14 May 2010 03:37:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cranford Joseph Coulter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today, I made a split pea and ham soup to serve 80 men on the street. One of the guys told me that it is so good that the recipe is &#8220;internet ready.&#8221; That&#8217;s the first time I have heard that expression. They used to just tell me that the soup was &#8220;bumpin&#8221; when it [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today, I made a split pea and ham soup to serve 80 men on the street. One of the guys told me that it is so good that the recipe is &#8220;internet ready.&#8221; That&#8217;s the first time I have heard that expression. They used to just tell me that the soup was &#8220;bumpin&#8221; when it was especially good; a much more graphic descriptor to be sure. In twenty years, even homeless people have become more technologically savvy. So here goes. I will attempt to publish the recipe as well as I can reconstruct it.</p>
<p>Equipment:<br />
1 &#8211; 22 quart stainless steel stock pot with a glass lid<br />
1 &#8211; much larger aluminum stockpot with no lid<br />
1 &#8211; food processor with chopping blade<br />
1 &#8211; long handled, heavy duty, industrial kitchen, stainless steel spoon<br />
1 &#8211; expendable  dish rag</p>
<p>Ingredients:<br />
1/2 pound dried navy beans<br />
1/2 pound dried pinto beans<br />
1 pound pearled barley<br />
1/2 pound dried kidney beans<br />
3-1/2 pounds green split peas<br />
1 pound yellow split peas<br />
3 ham bones with a fair amount of meat on them<br />
2 yellow onions<br />
raw broccoli, cauliflower and carrots from 1-1/2 party trays<br />
5 cloves garlic<br />
4 Tablespoons salt<br />
10 shakes of black pepper<br />
3 Tablespoons Greek oregano<br />
1/2 teaspoon nutmeg<br />
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon<br />
2 Tablespoons ground sage<br />
3 Tablespoons finely chopped dried basil<br />
water</p>
<p>Cut as much meat as possible off of ham bones and set aside. Put ham bones and dried beans, barley and peas in the 22 quart stock pot with the pot about half full with water. Place directly on stove on high heat. While that is heating up, puree the raw vegetables and onions in the food processor and add to the pot. This will take at least three processor batches. Press the garlic cloves into the pot; that is with a garlic press. Add enough water so that the pot is almost full; still allowing room to stir vigorously. Cover and bring it to a boil. Keep it boiling until all the beans, barley and peas are soft; stirring often with your industrial spoon that is long enough to reach the bottom without burning your fingers. Remove the bones and any strips of fat that are floating. Use a plate to scrape the peas, etc., and any remaining meat off the bones to return to the soup. Discard the bones. Cut up the meat that was set aside and add it to the soup. If there is still room, add water to restore it to the level before you removed the bones.</p>
<p>Put the dish rag in the middle of the bottom of the larger stock pot and add hot tap water. Place stainless stock pot into larger stock pot. The water should come about halfway up the sides of the outer pot; any more and it will bubble and perk out of the pot; any less and it will not transfer enough heat to the soup. This forms a giant double boiler, so you can leave the heat on half and simmer for hours, without worrying about scorching the soup (as long as you don&#8217;t let it boil dry and burn your rag &#8211; Believe me; it&#8217;s not a pleasant smell.).</p>
<p>Add the rest of the spices and stir them in. Leave it on the stove to heat for a few hours; stirring occasionally and making sure that the outer pot has enough water.</p>
<p>When you are ready to go to the street or whatever event you are going to; dump the soup (O, I meant to say pour) into a blue Igloo brand cube style cooler. Igloo is the only brand that doesn&#8217;t melt. (Melting cooler is not a flavor you want in your soup!) It will keep your soup piping hot for hours.</p>
<p>Bon Appetit!
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		<title>He fixed a flat and served mankind.</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Mar 2009 03:38:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cranford Joseph Coulter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The first time I helped to change a flat tire was when I was not yet ten years old. The whole family was in the station wagon on a lonely two lane road in the middle of Minnesota, on our way to a lake. A car was stopped on the side of the road with [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The first time I helped to change a flat tire was when I was not yet ten years old. The whole family was in the station wagon on a lonely two lane road in the middle of Minnesota, on our way to a lake. A car was stopped on the side of the road with a flat, left, rear tire. The woman driving the car was just starting to try to figure out how to change her flat tire. This was long before the days of GPS and cell phones. My dad pulled over to offer assistance. He then backed the car up so that we were behind the lady&#8217;s car, so our headlights could help us see. He proceeded to change the tire, instructing my brother and me on how to properly foot the jack and remove the nuts while the tire still has contact with the ground. My brother, Tom, who is six years older got to help pump the jack and loosen the nuts. I was in charge of stowing the nuts in the hubcap. </p>
<p>After the tire was changed and the jack and damaged tire secured properly in the trunk of the lady&#8217;s car, she thanked us and offered my dad payment of ten dollars. This was the early 1960s, so that would translate to be about $50 or $60 in today&#8217;s money. My dad thanked her, but told her to keep her money. I was just a little kid, so any paper money was a big deal. I couldn&#8217;t imagine turning it down. She insisted that my dad accept it. He firmly told her no thanks, and added, &#8220;The way you will pay me back is the next time you see someone in need and you are able to help, you will help them out.&#8221; When we got back in the car he repeated the conversation for my sisters to hear. He stressed that everyone is in need sometime, so if you hope to be helped in an emergency, you need to always do what you can when the opportunity presents itself. That was probably the most important life lesson my dad ever taught me.  </p>
<p>This was not the only time he taught this lesson. It was repeated by example countless times and by words a few. But this was the time it stuck with me. </p>
<p>(Since then, I learned that stowing the lug nuts in the wheel cover is not always a good plan. If you step on the edge of the wheel cover, it acts like a catapult launching them in unpredictable directions.)</p>
<p> </p>
<div id="attachment_323" class="wp-caption alignnone" style="width: 490px"><img class="size-full wp-image-323  " title="grandpacharlie1972" src="http://www.shoutforjoy.us/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/grandpacharlie1972.jpg" alt="Charles Robert Coulter" width="480" height="610" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Charles Robert Coulter  |  August 15, 1924 - February 24, 2009</p></div>
<p>Charlie was the baby of his family, the youngest of four siblings born to Mae Wise Coulter and &#8220;Freeman&#8221; Joseph Coulter.
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		<title>Rosalie, Pete, Jerome &amp; Pops</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 15 Aug 2008 23:15:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cranford Joseph Coulter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Rosalie was born about two weeks before me in 1955. We&#8217;re both partially of Irish descent. We grew up at the same time in different parts of the same country in two very different worlds. I first met Rosalie in 1985 when she was an inmate in the Women’s Detention Facility at the Philadelphia House [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rosalie was born about two weeks before me in 1955. We&#8217;re both partially of Irish descent. We grew up at the same time in different parts of the same country in two very different worlds.</p>
<p>I first met Rosalie in 1985 when she was an inmate in the Women’s Detention Facility at the Philadelphia House of Corrections. We were both just exiting out twenties. She was a wild thing with a head of thick, curly, frizzy, red hair. I had a lot more brown than white in my beard and hair, wore no moustache and had aviator wireframe glasses. (They were the closest thing I could find to round at the time.) </p>
<p>Rosie told me her sad story of abuse and love. This was the first time I had heard this sort of tale, which by now has became all too familiar, of a woman who is physically abused by her mate, yet loves him still, to the point of endangering their children. Rosie was vivacious, persuasive, irrepressibly happy and a tease.</p>
<p>I saw her on and off through my four years as a chaplain in the Philadelphia prisons. She was one of our first students in the tutoring program I started in the WDF. She always was telling the tutors and the guards what a great guy I was, followed by some kind of left-handed compliment.</p>
<p>It was sometime in 1990, about the time we were turning 35, while I was serving sandwiches, iced tea and goodies at the wall of the &#8220;Love Park&#8221;, I heard this woman holler: &#8220;Hey Rev! How ya been?&#8221; Rosie ran up to me and gave me a big hug.</p>
<p>Since then, we have seen Rosie from time to time. Sometimes she was a regular customer. Other times, she would just stop by to say hello and catch up on the news.</p>
<p>We met her brother, Pete. Rosie had a couple of different boyfriends that she introduced to us. Then she got serious about Jerome several years ago. Pete befriended an older man whom he would look out for and help out. We only ever knew him as Pops. Pops got housing assistance. So Pete and Rosie and Jerome moved in with him. It was a way of surviving off the street by pooling their resources. Some nights we would take them all home after we were done serving.</p>
<p>Rosalie and Jerome got married several years ago by Judge Valentine on Valentine’s Day at City Hall. They all got evicted from the house. Rosie and Jerome ended up getting violent with each other. Jerome was arrested. There was a restraining order. Jerome says it was a horse apiece, that Rosie gave as good as she got, and I can believe it. She was feisty. They divorced.</p>
<p>For a time Rosie lived in New Jersey with relatives, but she still came over about once a month to see us and let us know she was all right. Her relatives moved and she was back on the street.</p>
<p>In 2005, about the time we were turning 50, Rosalie was diagnosed with leukemia. She went through one round of chemo. It seemed she was doing better, then not so much. She went through another round in the Spring of 2006. This is while living on the street. Her brother and Pops and a few other guys were looking out for her and trying to provide protection and moral support. Finally some health worker was able to figure out a way for her to get a room in a group home, as she was about to start her third round of chemo.</p>
<p>Pops passed away last year. Pete got a good job and a place of his own. Jerome spent most of the last year in jail. He just got out. Rosalie passed away sometime around our 53rd birthdays.</p>
<p>Rosie was a joy to know. She always gave thanks to God for even the smallest acts of kindness. I consider it a privilege and blessing to have been counted among her friends. May her memory be eternal.
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		<title>Make Room for 4,000,000,000 More People</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 22:53:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cranford Joseph Coulter</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Demographers predict that by the year 2050 there will be more than 10 billion people on earth. It is time that we start making room for them. A good place to begin would to make sure all the people who are here now are fed, housed, employed, respected and cared for. This is what I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Demographers predict that by the year 2050 there will be more than 10 billion people on earth. It is time that we start making room for them. A good place to begin would to make sure all the people who are here now are fed, housed, employed, respected and cared for.</p>
<p>This is what I intend this blog to discuss. It will be heavy on green issues, as these impact everyone at every stage of life and future generations. Economic inequities affect people in a given time. Using up resources that occur once in the lifecycle of the planet for the ease of a portion of three or four generations, while leaving toxic waste and a damaged global ecosystem to all future generations is an abomination.</p>
<p>I will not just rail against the current situation and powers that be. I will report on hopeful breakthroughs and suggest positive, doable actions. There will be people&#8217;s stories. Most people can&#8217;t really get their minds around caring for unseen, teeming masses, while they are just trying to see to their own families. I hope that we will start to recognize that we are all family.
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